Many African-Americans are still looking for heroic icons, living legends who are also black, for our children to look up to and whom they could also emulate. There are many. But in the mad rush to catapult men and women into that role on accomplishments and media exposure alone, many overlook the every day people, the mundane workadays who fittingly model hardwork, responsibility, and fairplay. Part of the problem (and perhaps the whole) is the breakdown of the family and the absence of "real" fathers in the home and men of "real" honor and dignity in many of our communities. I say this not to spite all of the hardworking, child-rearing, faith-building, hope-instilling, virtuous women who have mothered and modelled love, perseverance, and care for centuries. This is a call for men (who have not already done so) to step up and to reclaim a God-ordained stewardship entrusted to them. Wake the sleeping giants and let the pillars rise. If Cam Newton fits the bill, fine; but let's start with the normal Newtons first. But question (abrupt and perhaps awkward): does this person necessarily have to be black?
